To Rid Yourself of an Unwanted Admirer or an Ex-Lover

sylvaetria:

You will need:

• a gray candle
• a white candle

Timing:

Three nights, beginning on a Saturday

Method:

Set the candles close together – a couple of inches apart.

Light the gray candle that represents you, saying either
mentally or vocally:

No more will you notice me
I am free
Surrounded by the mists of invisibility

Move the unlit white candle away from the gray, saying:

No longer desire me or seek connection
My rejection, though kindly, is clear
Find love and life new
The binding is through
And you shall no longer be near

Blow out the gray candle.

On night two, light the gray candle again, repeating the
first set of words. Move the unit white candle further away from yours,
repeating the second set of words.

Blow out the gray candle again.

On the third night, move the unlit white candle as far away
as possible from the gray candle, saying:

Follow your own path in joy
No longer walking along mine

Light the white candle and let it burn all the way through.
Once this is done, light the gray candle, saying:

May the mists of invisibility
Remain between us perpetually
As you follow your way and I follow mine

Extinguish the gray candle and dispose of it, and separately
rid yourself of any of the remaining wax from the white candle.

Source:
[“1001 Spells” by Cassandra Eason]