
My dash did a thing

My dash did a thing
You can campaign for net neutrality without reblogging creepy memes about Ajit Pai dying. Also protip: if 100% of the comments on a meme about a PoC dying are racist, there’s a chance it’s not the best thing for you to be reblogging. A meme/spell post with content that’s bordering on a death threat? Not super great to reblog, even if you’re implying it’s “just witchcraft.”
When a post is basically just a photo of of a person with text on top of it implying the person should die, I’m NOT gonna like to charge, reblog to cast. I’m gonna unfollow the person who put it on my dash.
If you’re lgbtq+ and a witch plz reblog this so I can follow ya
Therapists aren’t people who you “pay to pretend to care about you”, therapists are people you pay to teach you how to care for yourself
Me: I am violently depressed.
Therapist: Oh! Sounds like you need to do YOGA! That will help!
Me: *signs up for yoga*
Me: *is violently depressed in Downward Dog*
Me: I hate myself and only see my flaws
Therapist: ok lets refocus on things you like about yourself. This week i want you to try and journal about good things you’ve for yourself and others.
Me: *does the homework* yeah but i still hate myself but feel bad cause i shouldn’t
Therapist: feeling like you shouldn’t hate yourself is a step in the right direction. Mental health is complex and isn’t something that will ~magically~ improve. We have a lot of hard work head of us but I’ll be here to help you.
TL;DR stop perpetuating the idea that therapy is unhelpful because the results are not instantaneous.
FUCKING THIS.
As a psychologist the amount of bullshit on this site, the amount of fucking dangerous bullshit on this site about how therapy is neurotypical bullshit and isn’t worth it and how exercise is pointless and good diet is pointless and that therapy homework is pointless DRIVES ME UP THE FUCKING WALL
Exercise is fucking important.
good diet is fucking important
therapy is fucking important.
WHY???because pills alone don’t help. they improve the hormonal imbalance (as does exercise and good diet which ALSO are a form of very real self care as your physical being is sorta connected to your mental one but go fucking figure right?), but guess what? the suicidal thoughts, the thoughts of harm, the thoughts of hating yourself, they’re still there. suicides actually increase when medicated. why? because suddenly you have the energy to fulfill thoughts of harming yourself. which is why you NEED therapy alongside pills.
it has taken you years, or decades to create your maladaptive thought processes and behaviours. that shit doesn’t disappear overnight. core beliefs don’t change overnight. these are the very fucking core of your personhood, your being and personality. THAT TAKES TIME TO CHANGE
STOP ACTING LIKE THERAPY IS SHIT IF IT DOESNT WORK IN TWO SESSIONS
what could they have done
to deserve your pin sharp hate
you did love them once
– ariesyou refused to bend
an oak against howling wind
now you are splinters
– taurusfear of loneliness
bubbles beneath your rib cage
you can’t tear it out
– geminigrudges weigh you down
swarm your lungs, drip from your lips
this is how you drown
– cancereveryone near you
gets crushed beneath your ego
that’s why you’re alone
– leothey wont remember
your sacrifices my dear
so do not make them
– virgoit doesn’t matter
what you have because it will
never be enough
– librathe walls around you,
built from your fear, are so high
no one will find you
– scorpiopeople don’t bounce back
as easily as you do
please stop hurting them
– sagittariusif ambition were
poison you’d drink and spend your
last breath on a laugh
– capricorntheir praise means nothing
you are someone who demands
blood for your vengeance
– aquariusif tears could save you
you wouldn’t be where you are
so try something new
– pisces(haiku #68 – #79)
Diamonds Aren’t Rare
- actually true, they aren’t
- BUT
- gem-quality diamonds are rare. There are three main factors that contribute to rarity
- SIZE – big diamonds are way more rare than little tiny ones
- COLOR – colorless diamonds are more rare than brown diamonds, and fancy-colored diamonds are more rare than colorless diamonds
- CLARITY – diamonds that aren’t full of crap are more rare than diamonds with lots of crap
- I could go on for a long time about this so send me an ask if you want a full post
Fake Citrine/Burnt Amethyst
- no
- yellow/orange quartz = citrine, whether it’s natural or treated
- it isn’t fake
- citrine is often heated amethyst whether it comes from nature or a lab anyway
- there are some citrines that were never amethyst, but many were
Copal Is Fake Amber
- copal is young amber
- amber is OLD, guys
- 1,000,000+ years old
- they will both float in saturated saltwater.
- amber is more resistant to chemicals because it’s gone through polymerization over time
- don’t drop your amber/copal in solvents because chances are it’s copal
Don’t Clean Crystals With Soap
- soap is good
- most common crystals can be cleaned with soap
- use gentle soap though, none of that orange gritty stuff that everyone’s dad had at one point
- rinse off the soap when you’re done
- check if your crystal is water soluble before cleaning though
- and be careful with unusual and delicate specimens
Heating And Irradiation Are Bad
- heating and irradiation enhance the color of your crystals
- almost every sapphire and ruby in the lower to mid-range market has been heated
- most other stones too
- it doesn’t hurt the stone. I promise
- it just makes them prettier
- the earth does it to her crystals too
Treated Stones Are Fake
- nope
- treated stones are usually still whatever they were before they were treated
- unless it’s a variety call based on color or something but y’know
- heated topaz = topaz
- aura quartzes are extra pretty because of their treatment
- it’s cool if you don’t want to use treated stones but many people like them
- treated stones are beautiful and not fake
- but make sure the treatment is DISCLOSED unless it’s routine (and therefore assumed)
Blood Diamonds
- it was a problem
- but not anymore!!!!
- there’s a fun international thing called the Kimberley Process (2003)
- diamonds can’t be exported from their origin country without a clear paper trail back to the mine
- diamonds are probably the most ethical gemstone purchase you can make today actually
- there’s no equivalent process for colored stones
- blood emeralds, anyone??
Garnet Is Corundum
- Corundum has THREE MAIN VARIETIES
- just THREE
- ruby (red), padparadscha (orange-pink), and sapphire (every other color)
- these have subvarieties (star ruby, yellow sapphire, etc etc etc)
- emerald and garnet are not corundum
- (garnet is a mineral group!!!! it’s not even a species, much less a variety)
- not everything is corundum
I’ll add on to this in the future! Let me know if you have questions, I’m happy to expand on anything in this post or any other crystal info that you aren’t sure about 🙂

Self Care: Witch Style
- Put a lavender or rose essential oil in your bath. If you don’t have any, put some lotion of those scents in
- Place a rose quartz in your bath
- Bless the water to bring comfort and peace of mind
- After the bath, put some comforting-scented lotion on you
- Light some lavender incense
- Brew some chamomile tea
- If that’s not available, hot chocolate with milk works!
- Put some lavender, mint, or chamomile (a tea packet works!) under your pillow
- While showering, envision all your negative energy going down the drain witch each scrub
- Cuddle your familiar
- Meditate on the positives in life
- Sit down next on the ground (preferably next to a tree) and imagine roots going down into the ground from you. Visualize the negative energy going down the roots and into the roots. Imagine better energy coming from the Earth going up your roots and into you
- Put a rose quartz and a normal quartz(to amplify the effect) in your pocket!
- Sit or lie down on a very comfortable place. Breath slowly. Inhale for 7 seconds, hold for 3 seconds, and exhale for 5 second. With each exhale, envision a nasty fog of horrible energy come out of you
“Dont do spells when you’re depressed” is such bullshit.
fire burns just like
you and your wrath consumes green
and dead wood alike
– ariesdarling be wary
of the gold you seek it’s not
yours to freely take
– taurusbeing two faced has
never ended well but you’ll
make a fine sinner
– geminiwhy must you crush all
that you’ve held within your grasp?
ribs break so easy
– canceryou’ll lead all your friends
like lemmings to a slaughter
i hope it’s worth it
– leohow many heads fell
so your people would kneel in
perfect symmetry
– virgonot making a choice
will leave you with nothing but
ashes in your mouth
– librahow much it must hurt
to never live up to your
own expectations
– scorpiohope is going to
kill you and it wont be a
pretty death. sorry
– sagittariuspeople will never
bleed enough to fulfill your
vision of justice
– capricornhaving no heart means
no one can stab you in it
so there’s that, at least
– aquariusyou march to someone
else’s siren song. they don’t
even know your name
– pices(haiku #52 to #63)
“The FCC is full of shit,”
I mutter to myself, applying lipstick in my scrying mirror. I peer into the depths for their downfall. My spell against their greed is lit upon my altar. My lipstick is perfect. The Goddess watches.
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